Some confidence is required but I went on a few dates with girls I met there. Talk about what you are looking for instead. They press you to reveal personal information immediately. On other sites that you pay for, like eHarmony and Match. Make her feel an emotion surprised, excited, insulted. I wish you all the best, though!
Downplaying your reasons for being online by saying that you don't have time for a relationship will only deter women from engaging with you at all.
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But my suggestion would be to change the wording a bit. I haven't figured out if you're going to be the nicest girl on my naughty list, or the naughtiest girl on my nice list. Hey it worked she replied. I tried the 1st line opener, and I DID get responses from girls Do keep it light and fun. Give me your number and I can send you a pic of my thumbs for proof.