I Have Abandonment Issues. To spend the night or not spend the night post-smashing is a personal decision. If you want to be the girl that guys want to date and not the one they just hook up with, focus on living a great life — maintain strong friendships, be passionate about something, eat healthy, stay active, have FUN, and enforce some standards for how men need to behave in order to be with you. Why is it always so weird to send that first message after sex? I give you permission. It was casual hookup. This may be a no-brainer for some, but I have heard from multiple guys that girls have done this.
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Her roommates are adults and they know the drill: Before you can be honest with him, you need to be honest with yourself. Go get some fucking brunch and enjoy your day. Share Tweet Pin It. What if he never calls again?